This post is.. well dedicated to happiness.. also fiction..I swear..
Well, I guess I have u to a good start with that initial comment. Now let's get to the emotional filled horror of the paragraph (since I decided today that u should go through this) . So here it goes:
We all have at some point of time thought that we should be happy instead of being sad and stressed. We look at our life and think we need to be more cheerful and sometimes we doubt if there is any happiness in our life. If u've had those thoughts let me tell u the good news is that we all deserve happiness (just like all the preachers u've listened to). So what is new in this idea? Good question. Just like we have to defend any research paper we write by saying what is novel in this and how the present study adds on to the existing literature of ideas, there has to be something new in here that u find here.
If you are one of those, then I urge you to not read ahead coz, I am pretty sure that there isn't anything new that u'll find here, like a neuroscientific perspective of why we deserve happiness or an analysis of why our brain is wired to get happy inputs (although now that I think about it, it sounds interesting!!) . Anyways, back from the mind wandering, there is nothing new that I am saying. But I guess sometimes we know what to do and how to do but can't make ourselves do that or don't want to find something. For them, I say this loud and clear - u deserve happiness. Common we are not that bad. sure we might have been bitchy, might have pushed someone in danger or murdered someone, but our heart wasn't entirely into it. We are not that bad and ya even if it feels that God + everyone is plotting against us and doesn't want us to be happy, watever we do, it ends up in a bad result, it not like that.
We first blame everyone around us who we can see, then everyone we can't see (God would be an example here) and then in acute state, we blame ourselves. Sure, things are bad enough for u, but things will get better and since I feel I should quote someone here for an impact, I quote "Things have a way of getting back to normal". I won't say like other preachers "All you have to do it is stop blaming yourself" coz thats not just "all". It will take effort, lots of it not just like lifting a bucket full of water, a lot of it... Find someone to bother (preferably who can't kill you, a blood relative may be ), try and structure ur life a bit (so u feel more control over it, like some aims to complete till end of the day) or write a blog about it....
Well, I guess I have u to a good start with that initial comment. Now let's get to the emotional filled horror of the paragraph (since I decided today that u should go through this) . So here it goes:
We all have at some point of time thought that we should be happy instead of being sad and stressed. We look at our life and think we need to be more cheerful and sometimes we doubt if there is any happiness in our life. If u've had those thoughts let me tell u the good news is that we all deserve happiness (just like all the preachers u've listened to). So what is new in this idea? Good question. Just like we have to defend any research paper we write by saying what is novel in this and how the present study adds on to the existing literature of ideas, there has to be something new in here that u find here.
If you are one of those, then I urge you to not read ahead coz, I am pretty sure that there isn't anything new that u'll find here, like a neuroscientific perspective of why we deserve happiness or an analysis of why our brain is wired to get happy inputs (although now that I think about it, it sounds interesting!!) . Anyways, back from the mind wandering, there is nothing new that I am saying. But I guess sometimes we know what to do and how to do but can't make ourselves do that or don't want to find something. For them, I say this loud and clear - u deserve happiness. Common we are not that bad. sure we might have been bitchy, might have pushed someone in danger or murdered someone, but our heart wasn't entirely into it. We are not that bad and ya even if it feels that God + everyone is plotting against us and doesn't want us to be happy, watever we do, it ends up in a bad result, it not like that.
We first blame everyone around us who we can see, then everyone we can't see (God would be an example here) and then in acute state, we blame ourselves. Sure, things are bad enough for u, but things will get better and since I feel I should quote someone here for an impact, I quote "Things have a way of getting back to normal". I won't say like other preachers "All you have to do it is stop blaming yourself" coz thats not just "all". It will take effort, lots of it not just like lifting a bucket full of water, a lot of it... Find someone to bother (preferably who can't kill you, a blood relative may be ), try and structure ur life a bit (so u feel more control over it, like some aims to complete till end of the day) or write a blog about it....
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